Wednesday, April 14, 2010

A Profound Epiphany

I feel like I had an epiphany today, I found the above statment and added my thoughts and feelings to make it thicker and more meaningful.. the state of the relationships between Black Women or Maybe even ALL WOMEN... is at an absurd level of dysfunction. I feel extremly passionate about creating an organization or just something that would uplift women and bring them together in positive ways because I see soo much Strife between us that keeps us seperated and full of hate and envy or Jealousy. I Looked at my own mom and realized that I have never seen her have DRAMA among her friends. I look at the Tyler Perry Movie and See how all the women get together and help eachother.. especially when they all got together and hugged eachother and Cried together. I didn't really catch that message untill I saw the movie a second time. Women are hurting from MANY things in LIFE, and it makes it worst when you can't even turn to your friend and tell her what your going thru or how you feel for fear that one day it may come back and bite you in the ass or be thrown in your face at the first sight of disagreement.. I look at the fact that I lost a person who I truly cared for deeply and feel like helped me tremendously with some things that I don't know if I could of changed within myself had I not encountered her uniqe personalitiy. I look at the fact that Some girls I keep on letting them know that I love em, but I don't feel like I get the same love in return and they come off as being too full of themselves to hear my plea for just a little more attention. I look at the tv show girlfriends, and think about all the times I wished I could have a group of girlfriends to hang out with like that, I look at a particular episode of when Toni was getting married and it was hard for Joan because She felt so Loved Deprived And although it was all about Toni and it was her day.. a True friend would sympathze with her friend that she loved and uplift her by wishing her to have her greatest Love one day, but if he never came that She would ALWAYs Love her. I look at the fact that there are a lot of Women out there with difficult mother daughter relationships and how sometimes having a best girlfriend that you can trust and love helps to ease that pain. I just feel like there are a lot of Intelligent, Strong Women out there who Can really help those women who are not as strong or need more education and if we could help eachother we could build MORE together and have more together because ulitmately women we all want some of the same things. We all want to be financiallly stable, we all want companionship and Love, we all want great lives for our children if not better then the lives we had, we all want to accomplish something great in life we all want to be a vision of Fireceness. And we all need Love. I feel like if we could get a better unity amongst eachother we would run this world like eyes have never seen before because The most phenomenal thing about a woman is her MIND and Her Ability to MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF NOTHING. Amen.

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